Lessons To Grab From Blessing's Case!

Last week an igbo (Nigeria) girl who is also a relationship Blogger known for always posting about her achievements on social media, posted a picture of house claiming that it's hers, she wrote a long epistle about her broken marriage and how she was chased out by her ex from a 2bedroom apartment and few years later,  she built hers.

Well the story drew the attention of the real owner of the house, who released a video and audio telling the world that Blessing is a liar and warned her to take down her post but she insisted that the house belongs to her until she was arrested today but here are some few things her issue taught me:

1) She posting about her "house" attracted 600 comments but the video of her been humiliated attracted 40,000 comments...  That tells you that an average stranger gets attracted by your pity story (downfalls) not your achievements.



2) Despite the curses and humiliation she faced today,  very few people pleaded her case and amongst the few, none was her friend or a family member,  no one is claiming her in the midst of this brouhaha. That tells you that betrayal and denial didn't end with Jesus, which is a reason to be selfish,  put yourself first and inspire yourself not the world.

3) Those that get suicidal thoughts because of online stuffs like this, can you see non is real,  if Ubi Franklin can be living large from borrowing and sleeping with different rich women, that should show you that life is hard everywhere,  appreciate your little beginning.

For me, The owner of the house did well by arresting her, she can use her claims to scam people,  she can use it to borrow money from banks, individuals etc.