I read your
blog daily even though my husband thinks the stories. i read on it
cannot be real( hes ajebo so i don't blame him lol) I know you can
probably see my name from the email but please don't put my name on the
post.
A lot of people
are always sending you emails about how their husbands do this or that
to them and how marriage has frustrated them or brought out the worst in
them.
First i
would like to say that my marriage has brought out the best in me. My
husband is not common and it could only have been God. These ladies that
are complaining about their husbands, a lot of them have not read
their bible. They got married out of societal pressures.
The problem with marrying an idiot starts with you.
When you were dating, you saw the red flags and refused to address
them. Now they are expecting sympathy and " advice" from blog readers
who also are not grounded in the things of God.
I am writing this email to let your readers know that there are good and godly marriages out there. I haven't been married for too long but honestly marriage has been good for me. We both fear and serve God, put him first. And let the word of God be your referral not human beings. I
know for a fact that the kind of submission i give to my husband
is rare these days. As a woman your power is in your submission. But
then, people say submission is stupidity, if you are in that category, please ignore the message.
Single ladies
out there please do not be overwhelmed by the horror marriage stories.
Let God lead you in the choice of a life partner. Put God first, not
money or fame. Don't rely on any man please. Have your source of income
and don't look at what your neighbour has or the school their kids go
to.
PS; Both my
husband and i are doing very well. We both bring a significant chunk to
the table. We live in this same US where horror marriage stories emanate
daily.
If you are not a christian, this still applies to you. God created marriage.
Stella, Thanks for sharing ....
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